Do you wish there was a way to resolve your divorce issues without the stress of the courtroom and the expense of litigation? Collaborative Divorce may be your answer. A Collaborative Divorce allows you to resolve your legal disputes without a trial and to achieve separation without litigation. Collaborative Law is non-adversarial. This means the parties work together toward a resolution rather than against each other.
With Collaborative divorce, the parties attempt to put aside negative emotions and work together toward a settlement. The process often resembles mediation. Each party has their own attorney. The parties share information and documents freely. The parties and the attorneys agree that if the collaborative approach does not work, neither of the lawyers will represent the parties in court. This ensures that all those involved are working collaboratively rather than as adversaries.
No Battle of the Experts
Often with litigation, each party will hire an expert such as an appraiser. Each party ends up paying their own appraiser and then both appraisers testify in court. Lawyers often refer to this as a “battle of the experts.” The problem with this approach is that it is expensive and unpredictable.
With a Collaborative Divorce, the parties assemble a team of experts which may include appraisers, financial advisers and counselors. These experts work as members of the collaborative team in an effort to guide the parties to a mutually agreeable resolution. Obviously, this approach is less expensive, but it has the added benefit of promoting cooperation and trust between the parties.
Separation Without Litigation
Collaborative Family Law has many advantages:
- You have control over the resolution of your dispute.
- Your private information does not become public, allowing you to maintain your privacy.
- The collaborative approach is less expensive and less stressful than going to court.
- Litigation can actually make difficult relationships more strained. Because divorcing couples may continue to have a relationship with each other through their children, a collaborative divorce promotes better relationships for parents and children.
Is Collaborative Divorce Right For You?
Not all cases are right for the collaborative approach. Sometimes there are simply too many hurt feelings and negative emotions for the collaborative law approach. However, if you and your spouse or ex-spouse are interested in saving money and working together toward a resolution that is good for both of you, a collaborative divorce may be the right choice.
Stephanie Irvine and David Irvine have both been trained as collaborative lawyers and are members of the North Carolina Civil Collaborative Law Association. You can find other collaborative family lawyers in western North Carolina listed with the WNC Collaborative Law Group. If you and your spouse are separated or separating, and if saving money, reducing stress and preserving a positive relationship for the sake of your children appeals to you, Contact Irvine Law Firm to see whether you can benefit from a Collaborative resolution to your legal disputes. We look forward to hearing from you.